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What are women most attracted in men?

@fiendcel said in #18:
> incel take, but what else can you expect from a penguin
but for me, it suprizes me that you had to respond to my comment (with it isn't even a statement, just a subjective opinion )and devalue my comment
with by itself it isn't negative, what is wrong with prefering good looking guy, prefering guys with money, prefering guys with high status, notching (without empirical knowleage). so our conclusion **must be** empirical. so what is wrong with being attracted to looks, money, status?
@xDoubledragon said in #33:
> but for me, it suprizes me that you had to respond to my comment (with it isn't even a statement, just a subjective opinion )and devalue my comment
> with by itself it isn't negative, what is wrong with prefering good looking guy, prefering guys with money, prefering guys with high status, notching (without empirical knowleage). so our conclusion **must be** empirical. so what is wrong with being attracted to looks, money, status?
I didn't say there was anything wrong with preferring those things, but the assumptions that you are working with are highly problematic, and reinforce dangerous stereotypes that have caused immense harm to both men and women historically. It would benefit you to reconsider your first assumption that women in general are attracted to anything in men. Also reevaluate your estimation of their attraction to men, as any good empiricist would do, because history(a topic of interest to empiricists like yourself) would suggest that most of the values we consider innate only arose out of coercion or exploitation of some kind. The answer to the question of "what women find attractive" has taken on the form of answering "how do women survive". If your answer was at all empirical, it was about a totally unrelated subject, because you failed to question what this "attraction" is we are talking about. Your assumption that their attraction is to things that they do not posses(at least in proportional quantities) reinforces the way of life that perpetuates their disenfranchisement and dependence on men that you misidentify as "attraction". It has become a self fulfilling prophecy. So when I make my "subjective opinions" and "devalue [your] comment[s]" it's for that exact reason. You spoke your truth into reality, and so did I. Hope that helps.
@fiendcel said in #34:
> I didn't say there was anything wrong with preferring those things, but the assumptions that you are working with are highly problematic, and reinforce dangerous stereotypes that have caused immense harm to both men and women historically. It would benefit you to reconsider your first assumption that women in general are attracted to anything in men. Also reevaluate your estimation of their attraction to men, as any good empiricist would do, because history(a topic of interest to empiricists like yourself) would suggest that most of the values we consider innate only arose out of coercion or exploitation of some kind. The answer to the question of "what women find attractive" has taken on the form of answering "how do women survive". If your answer was at all empirical, it was about a totally unrelated subject, because you failed to question what this "attraction" is we are talking about. Your assumption that their attraction is to things that they do not posses(at least in proportional quantities) reinforces the way of life that perpetuates their disenfranchisement and dependence on men that you misidentify as "attraction". It has become a self fulfilling prophecy. So when I make my "subjective opinions" and "devalue [your] comment[s]" it's for that exact reason. You spoke your truth into reality, and so did I. Hope that helps.

can you sumerize this in like... 1 sentence?
@tetrafauna said in #35:
> can you sumerize this in like... 1 sentence?
Yeah, "incel take, but what else can you expect from a penguin".
6 foot 2 +
Six pack abbs
Financially secure
Own house
Look like a male model
A Pirate/Vampire/warewolf/Surgeon/
Funny
Mysterious
Tough

For Men the list is:

She's alive. (possibly not necessarily a deal breaker).
LolJk :).
What are women most attracted in men? Personally I like a man who smells nice, but a pleasant smelling one is a rare find. There are just too many smelly boys in the world who grow up to be smelly men. Don't you agree?